When Is it OK to End a Friendship?
Howdy! As a Christian, when is it appropriate to end a friendship? Aren’t we supposed to hang in there with people and love them like Christ loves us, sacrificially and…
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eddiekaufholz
Sometimes it's OK to walk away.
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How Do I Deal With My Dysfunctional Family During the Holidays?
I have a knot in my stomach and I’m hoping you can help. As you may know, Christmas is right around the corner. Given that reality, I’m finishing up finals…
The Mega-Problem Behind the ‘Falls’ of Megachurch Pastors
Editor’s note: A version of this story originally ran in June. Last week, former megachurch pastor Tullian Tchividjian posted an article, explaining how deeply his own scandal effected him, even…
How to Find Healing After Sexual Abuse
If you watch the news or frequent the internet at all, you know that sexual abuse seems to be an epidemic in some circles. For several years, we’ve seen major…
The Story Behind dc Talk’s Reunion Cruise
Last week, dc Talk made a big announcement: They’re taking a cruise. And, unlike tropical conditions, the reaction from fans wasn’t exactly warm. TobyMac even posted a (good natured) response…
Does Unfriending Someone Close to Me Mean I’m a Bad Person?
Without going into incriminating details, I’ll just say that someone on my Facebook feed is really bothering me. And what makes it confusing is that, in real life, I actually…
Yes, Girls Can Ask Guys Out on Dates
So I’m in my local coffee shop last weekend when I find myself in a delightful conversation with a funny, kind, and good-looking barista. After I got my Americano and…
How Do I Forgive My Dysfunctional Family?
I had a lot of bad things happen to me when I was young. Then, two years ago, my mother died, and her death seemed to bring out a lot…
What If My Boyfriend Wants to Delay Getting Married for Years?
I’ve been dating my boyfriend now for a year and a half. He says he wants to marry me, but that he wants me to wait because he’s saving for…
How to Deal With the Grief of Infertility
My wife and I have been trying to have a child for almost two years and we fear, due to some issues surrounding infertility, we will not be able to.…
What If God Says No?
I have a dear friend who is absolutely destroying her life. Between drug use and running away from her husband, kids and friends, things are looking quite grim. I don’t…
How Do I Know When It’s Time to Stop Praying for Something?
How do you determine when to stop praying for/about something and when to persevere and press in? -Tired prayer That’s not really the question you want to ask, is it?…
I Feel Like I’m Meant for Something Greater Than What I’m Doing. Help!
I struggle with feeling like I’m made for something greater. Should I be happy the way I am or strive for something else? -Less Than Less, Thank you for writing…
How Do We Deal with Tragedy in a Fallen World?
[Editor’s note: To participate in our weekly advice column, submit your questions here and watch this space each Wednesday.] After this Paris attack, I’ve just been feeling really sad, confused…
I’m Struggling with Depression. What Should I Do?
[Editor’s note: To participate in our weekly advice column, submit your questions here and watch this space each Wednesday.] I am in my first year of college and really struggling.…