I should have picked up on all the clues my host dropped during the taping of a television show I was recently a guest on. Just looking at him is clue number one. One would have thought that having watched the MTV Europe Music Awards and having seen Madonna’s “Music” video, I would have remembered the bright yellow jumpsuit, stretch Tommy cap and over-the-top goggles of Ali G. (I think I just figured European club fashion was going through a real bad phase.)
Listening to him talk is clue number two. Like a white British version of Snoop Dogg, his slang and accent are known very well by his fans. (An Internet translator is available for those that need help understanding him.)
His questions should have been the final indication that something was afoot. (It hit me when he asked the public sex educator to my left, “Does impregnation by anal sex lead to gay babies?” that he couldn’t be serious.) Instead of trying to regain composure, I should have kept on laughing when he asked all of us those insane questions. As it turns out, my instinct to laugh was correct.
The man sitting in front of me, unbeknownst to me, was not the host of a teenage documentary series in the U.K., as I had been lead to believe. He was indeed Ali G, a.k.a. chameleon comedian Sacha Baron Cohen, and on a cloudy day back in November, my three other panelists and I were taken for a ride not quite like any other.
I received an email from the Mission Year office. They had received an email from a producer who said she was working on a six-part documentary series geared towards teenagers for Channel 4 Television in the U.K. Her reason for contacting Mission Year was that she was currently working on an episode about sex and was looking for “a passionate and articulate, abstinent man in his early 20s.” Apparently, some people in the office thought I fit the bill.
At first, I called and turned down the invitation. While it’s true that I am virgin, many things leave me feeling it is only a technicality. I figured they could find someone who better fit what they were looking for. Moments later, after my housemate came in the room and verbally backhanded me for passing up such an opportunity, I picked up the phone and agreed to participate.
Two days later I found myself in a private dressing room in a television studio in Washington D.C. It was in this room that, completely unaware of his true identity, I first met Ali G. His clothing immediately struck me as funny. He looked like he had been recently kicked out of the Newsboys. I kept thinking that if he were in my city of Philly dressed like that, he would probably get beaten up and robbed. He introduced himself as “Rahiem.” His teeth were gold-plated. This guy was trying so hard I felt bad for him. He didn’t say much, only enough to introduce himself and then gracefully exit the room. People continuously came in and out of my dressing room—attendants, producers, hair and makeup (that was a weird one). Every last one of them was extremely friendly and kind. They really knew how to make someone feel comfortable and relaxed. In other words, they knew how to cover Ali G’s butt.
As I entered the studio, I found two loveseats and an armchair waiting. The studio set background was a generic cardboard brick wall with a chain-link fence in front. On the wall were spray-painted images—the main one being the word “SEX” across the middle two panels. Behind where I was to be seated was the spray-painted image of a topless woman. (“Great,” I thought. “That means almost every camera shot of me will include two big breasts in the background. Lucky me.”)
After our microphones were checked and the tape was rolling, “Rahiem” introduced me and the other panelists. The man to my left was a public sex educator. The woman on my right was a conservative lobbyist from Concerned Women for America. The third woman turned out to be an adult film actress. I knew being part of this show was going to be surreal, but this was a bit more than I anticipated.
The next two hours were a blur to me. I remember snippets. Each of us shared quite a bit on our views of sex from our distinct roles. “Rahiem” kept forgetting my name and often just called me “Virgin.” He kept much of the conversation flowing, but as time progressed, he asked stranger and stranger questions, and his demeanor became even more comedically enhanced. (By the end, I had determined he must have been stoned.)
Jan, from CWA, was just about the most stereotypical conservative lobbyist I had ever encountered. I constantly found myself agreeing with her wholeheartedly on issues of sexual purity one moment, and the next I would find my face contorted in utter confusion as she would pull out isolated, obtuse incidents to illustrate her point.
In perhaps one of the most surprising moments during the course of the show, I shared my True Love Waits card that I had signed when I was 16 years old. After some conversation around it, Leeanna, the adult film actress, leaned in and said she had never heard of such a thing. With contemplative sentiment she said, “Maybe I’ll get my daughter to sign one of those one day.” Later, Ali G proposed that if I’m nervous about getting it on with the ladies (“I’m not trying to get laid!” I repeatedly stated), perhaps Leeanna could show me the ropes. Leeanna declined the offer, stating that she “really respects” the decisions I am making.
After the taping, “Rahiem” came up and shook my hand. With a look of sincerity and concern, he said, “You should really think about the decisions you’re making.” I said, “I’m making the right decisions.” I smiled and turned to leave. I was ushered out to the lobby and into my cab, where I went to the train station and made my way back to Philly. My mind was a blur of the events that just took place.
Months later, while out playing music on tour, I was sitting in a hotel room in Indianapolis, Ind. I was watching HBO, when suddenly that all-too-familiar face showed up on the TV screen. I began yelling at the television. The commercial showed crystal clear that it was a comedy show. I sat down on the bed and quickly realized I had been duped. The only words that expressed my heart were those great words of old: “Oh crap.”[Jesse Eubanks is a musician and recording artist from Philadelphia, Penn., where he also serves as the Worship Director for The Port Community Church. For more information on Jesse’s music and the ministry of The Port, please visit JesseEubanks.homestead.com.]
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