When Steve from Blue’s Clues popped back into our lives with an unexpectedly heartfelt message in 2021, it felt like the internet collectively sighed in relief. This familiar face from our childhood was reaching out to an audience that was a lot older, dealing with a lot bigger problems. It turns out, Steve (real name: Steve Burns) never really left us. He just popped back into our lives when we needed him most—and now he’s become the internet’s unexpected therapist.
Steve has been using TikTok as a platform to check in with people—literally. His videos are straightforward. They typically begin with him leaning into the camera, greeting us with, “Hi, how are you doing today?” And that’s it. The comment section does the rest. People flood his videos with comments, venting about their day, processing their emotions, or even just connecting with others who grew up with Steve as their favorite childhood guide.
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Millennials are pouring their hearts out in Steve’s comment section, creating a kind of communal therapy session where strangers support and comfort each other. In a way, Steve has created a corner of the internet where it’s OK to feel — and it’s OK to share those feelings publicly.
But why Steve? Surely there are actually licensed counselors on TikTok who could do a better job at facilitating these conversations.
Part of the magic lies in the nostalgia he represents. Steve was a constant for many millennials growing up, a familiar face on the TV who guided us through puzzles and learning moments with a calm, friendly demeanor. Now, with adulthood in full swing, seeing Steve pop up again feels like reconnecting with a long-lost friend.
And of course, what Steve is doing isn’t technically therapy, but it is therapeutic. At a time when mental health resources can be hard to come by, especially for young people, having a familiar face offering a moment of care can be deeply healing.
In some ways, it feels like Steve has taken on a modern-day Mr. Rogers role. He’s not solving anyone’s problems directly, but by creating a space for conversation, he’s helping people feel less alone. Whether it’s mental health, family struggles or just the stresses of daily life, millennials have found comfort in Steve’s virtual presence.
And while his videos might make us weepy, they also remind us that it’s OK to lean on each other — because, as Steve might say, “I never forgot about you. Ever.”
