We don’t want to shock you—but prepared to be shocked anyway. Most teenagers (and hopefully adults too) frown on breaking up with someone over social media. (I know, right? Wow.) According to a survey by Pew Research Center, teens ranked telling someone in person as the most acceptable way to end a relationship. Sending a text message? Uncool. Simply changing your status on Facebook to “single?” Straight up verboten. Check out the full results here.